Author's Preface
This collection of scattered thoughts and observations has little order
or continuity; it was begun to give pleasure to a good mother who thinks
for herself. My first idea was to write a tract a few pages long, but
I was carried away by my subject, and before I knew what I was doing
my tract had become a kind of book, too large indeed for the matter
contained in it, but too small for the subject of which it treats. For
a long time I hesitated whether to publish it or not, and I have often
felt, when at work upon it, that it is one thing to publish a few pamphlets
and another to write a book. After vain attempts to improve it, I have
decided that it is my duty to publish it as it stands. I consider that
public attention requires to be directed to this subject, and even if
my own ideas are mistaken, my time will not have been wasted if I stir
up others to form right ideas. A solitary who casts his writings before
the public without any one to advertise them, without any party ready
to defend them, one who does not even know what is thought and said
about those writings, is at least free from one anxiety--if he is mistaken,
no one will take his errors for gospel.
I shall say very little about the value of a good education, nor shall
I stop to prove that the customary method of education is bad; this
has been done again and again, and I do not wish to fill my book with
things which everyone knows. I will merely state that, go as far back
as you will, you will find a continual outcry against the established
method, but no attempt to suggest a better. The literature and science
of our day tend rather to destroy than to build up. We find fault after
the manner of a master; to suggest, we must adopt another style, a style
less in accordance with the pride of the philosopher. In spite of all
those books, whose only aim, so they say, is public utility, the most
useful of all arts, the art of training men, is still neglected. Even
after Locke's book was written the subject remained almost untouched,
and I fear that my book will leave it pretty much as it found it.
We know nothing of childhood; and with our mistaken notions the further
we advance the further we go astray. The wisest writers devote themselves
to what a man ought to know, without asking what a child is capable
of learning. They are always looking for the man in the child, without
considering what he is before he becomes a man. It is to this study
that I have chiefly devoted myself, so that if my method is fanciful
and unsound, my observations may still be of service. I may be greatly
mistaken as to what ought to be done, but I think I have clearly perceived
the material which is to be worked upon. Begin thus by making a more
careful study of your scholars, for it is clear that you know nothing
about them; yet if you read this book with that end in view, I think
you will find that it is not entirely useless.
With regard to what will be called the systematic portion of the book,
which is nothing more than the course of nature, it is here that the
reader will probably go wrong, and no doubt I shall be attacked on this
side, and perhaps my critics may be right. You will tell me, "This
is not so much a treatise on education as the visions of a dreamer with
regard to education." What can I do? I have not written about other
people's ideas of education, but about my own. My thoughts are not those
of others; this reproach has been brought against me again and again.
But is it within my power to furnish myself with other eyes, or to adopt
other ideas? It is within my power to refuse to be wedded to my own
opinions and to refuse to think myself wiser than others. I cannot change
my mind; I can distrust myself. This is all I can do, and this I have
done. If I sometimes adopt a confident tone, it is not to impress the
reader, it is to make my meaning plain to him. Why should I profess
to suggest as doubtful that which is not a matter of doubt to myself?
I say just what I think.
When I freely express my opinion, I have so little idea of claiming
authority that I always give my reasons, so that you may weigh and judge
them for yourselves; but though I would not obstinately defend my ideas,
I think it my duty to put them forward; for the principles with regard
to which I differ from other writers are not matters of indifference;
we must know whether they are true or false, for on them depends the
happiness or the misery of mankind. People are always telling me to
make PRACTICABLE suggestions. You might as well tell me to suggest what
people are doing already, or at least to suggest improvements which
may be incorporated with the wrong methods at present in use. There
are matters with regard to which such a suggestion is far more chimerical
than my own, for in such a connection the good is corrupted and the
bad is none the better for it. I would rather follow exactly the established
method than adopt a better method by halves. There would be fewer contradictions
in the man; he cannot aim at one and the same time at two different
objects. Fathers and mothers, what you desire that you can do. May I
count on your goodwill?
There are two things to be considered with regard to any scheme. In
the first place, "Is it good in itself" In the second, "Can
it be easily put into practice?"
With regard to the first of these it is enough that the scheme should
be intelligible and feasible in itself, that what is good in it should
be adapted to the nature of things, in this case, for example, that
the proposed method of education should be suitable to man and adapted
to the human heart.
The second consideration depends upon certain given conditions in particular
cases; these conditions are accidental and therefore variable; they
may vary indefinitely. Thus one kind of education would be possible
in Switzerland and not in France; another would be adapted to the middle
classes but not to the nobility. The scheme can be carried out, with
more or less success, according to a multitude of circumstances, and
its results can only be determined by its special application to one
country or another, to this class or that. Now all these particular
applications are not essential to my subject, and they form no part
of my scheme. It is enough for me that, wherever men are born into the
world, my suggestions with regard to them may be carried out, and when
you have made them what I would have them be, you have done what is
best for them and best for other people. If I fail to fulfil this promise,
no doubt I am to blame; but if I fulfil my promise, it is your own fault
if you ask anything more of me, for I have promised you nothing more.
BOOK I
God makes all things good; man meddles with them and they become evil.
He forces one soil to yield the products of another, one tree to bear
another's fruit. He confuses and confounds time, place, and natural
conditions. He mutilates his dog, his horse, and his slave. He destroys
and defaces all things; he loves all that is deformed and monstrous;
he will have nothing as nature made it, not even man himself, who must
learn his paces like a saddle-horse, and be shaped to his master's taste
like the trees in his garden. Yet things would be worse without this
education, and mankind cannot be made by halves. Under existing conditions
a man left to himself from birth would be more of a monster than the
rest. Prejudice, authority, necessity, example, all the social conditions
into which we are plunged, would stifle nature in him and put nothing
in her place. She would be like a sapling chance sown in the midst of
the highway, bent hither and thither and soon crushed by the passers-by.
Tender, anxious mother, [Footnote: The earliest education is most important
and it undoubtedly is woman's work. If the author of nature had meant
to assign it to men he would have given them milk to feed the child.
Address your treatises on education to the women, for not only are they
able to watch over it more closely than men, not only is their influence
always predominant in education, its success concerns them more nearly,
for most widows are at the mercy of their children, who show them very
plainly whether their education was good or bad. The laws, always more
concerned about property than about people, since their object is not
virtue but peace, the laws give too little authority to the mother.
Yet her position is more certain than that of the father, her duties
are more trying; the right ordering of the family depends more upon
her, and she is usually fonder of her children. There are occasions
when a son may be excused for lack of respect for his father, but if
a child could be so unnatural as to fail in respect for the mother who
bore him and nursed him at her breast, who for so many years devoted
herself to his care, such a monstrous wretch should be smothered at
once as unworthy to live. You say mothers spoil their children, and
no doubt that is wrong, but it is worse to deprave them as you do. The
mother wants her child to be happy now. She is right, and if her method
is wrong, she must be taught a better. Ambition, avarice, tyranny, the
mistaken foresight of fathers, their neglect, their harshness, are a
hundredfold more harmful to the child than the blind affection of the
mother. Moreover, I must explain what I mean by a mother and that explanation
follows.] I appeal to you. You can remove this young tree from the highway
and shield it from the crushing force of social conventions. Tend and
water it ere it dies. One day its fruit will reward your care. From
the outset raise a wall round your child's soul; another may sketch
the plan, you alone should carry it into execution.
Plants are fashioned by cultivation, man by education. If a man were
born tall and strong, his size and strength would be of no good to him
till he had learnt to use them; they would even harm him by preventing
others from coming to his aid; [Footnote: Like them in externals, but
without speech and without the ideas which are expressed by speech,
he would be unable to make his wants known, while there would be nothing
in his appearance to suggest that he needed their help.] left to himself
he would die of want before he knew his needs. We lament the helplessness
of infancy; we fail to perceive that the race would have perished had
not man begun by being a child.
We are born weak, we need strength; helpless, we need aid; foolish,
we need reason. All that we lack at birth, all that we need when we
come to man's estate, is the gift of education.
This education comes to us from nature, from men, or from things. The
inner growth of our organs and faculties is the education of nature,
the use we learn to make of this growth is the education of men, what
we gain by our experience of our surroundings is the education of things.
Thus we are each taught by three masters. If their teaching conflicts,
the scholar is ill-educated and will never be at peace with himself;
if their teaching agrees, he goes straight to his goal, he lives at
peace with himself, he is well-educated.
Now of these three factors in education nature is wholly beyond our
control, things are only partly in our power; the education of men is
the only one controlled by us; and even here our power is largely illusory,
for who can hope to direct every word and deed of all with whom the
child has to do.
Viewed as an art, the success of education is almost impossible, since
the essential conditions of success are beyond our control. Our efforts
may bring us within sight of the goal, but fortune must favour us if
we are to reach it.
What is this goal? As we have just shown, it is the goal of nature.
Since all three modes of education must work together, the two that
we can control must follow the lead of that which is beyond our control.
Perhaps this word Nature has too vague a meaning. Let us try to define
it.
Nature, we are told, is merely habit. What does that mean? Are there
not habits formed under compulsion, habits which never stifle nature?
Such, for example, are the habits of plants trained horizontally. The
plant keeps its artificial shape, but the sap has not changed its course,
and any new growth the plant may make will be vertical. It is the same
with a man's disposition; while the conditions remain the same, habits,
even the least natural of them, hold good; but change the conditions,
habits vanish, nature reasserts herself. Education itself is but habit,
for are there not people who forget or lose their education and others
who keep it? Whence comes this difference? If the term nature is to
be restricted to habits conformable to nature we need say no more.
We are born sensitive and from our birth onwards we are affected in
various ways by our environment. As soon as we become conscious of our
sensations we tend to seek or shun the things that cause them, at first
because they are pleasant or unpleasant, then because they suit us or
not, and at last because of judgments formed by means of the ideas of
happiness and goodness which reason gives us. These tendencies gain
strength and permanence with the growth of reason, but hindered by our
habits they are more or less warped by our prejudices. Before this change
they are what I call Nature within us.
Everything should therefore be brought into harmony with these natural
tendencies, and that might well be if our three modes of education merely
differed from one another; but what can be done when they conflict,
when instead of training man for himself you try to train him for others?
Harmony becomes impossible. Forced to combat either nature or society,
you must make your choice between the man and the citizen, you cannot
train both.
The smaller social group, firmly united in itself and dwelling apart
from others, tends to withdraw itself from the larger society. Every
patriot hates foreigners; they are only men, and nothing to him.[Footnote:
Thus the wars of republics are more cruel than those of monarchies.
But if the wars of kings are less cruel, their peace is terrible; better
be their foe than their subject.] This defect is inevitable, but of
little importance. The great thing is to be kind to our neighbours.
Among strangers the Spartan was selfish, grasping, and unjust, but unselfishness,
justice, and harmony ruled his home life. Distrust those cosmopolitans
who search out remote duties in their books and neglect those that lie
nearest. Such philosophers will love the Tartars to avoid loving their
neighbour.
The natural man lives for himself; he is the unit, the whole, dependent
only on himself and on his like. The citizen is but the numerator of
a fraction, whose value depends on its denominator; his value depends
upon the whole, that is, on the community. Good social institutions
are those best fitted to make a man unnatural, to exchange his independence
for dependence, to merge the unit in the group, so that he no longer
regards himself as one, but as a part of the whole, and is only conscious
of the common life. A citizen of Rome was neither Caius nor Lucius,
he was a Roman; he ever loved his country better than his life. The
captive Regulus professed himself a Carthaginian; as a foreigner he
refused to take his seat in the Senate except at his master's bidding.
He scorned the attempt to save his life. He had his will, and returned
in triumph to a cruel death. There is no great likeness between Regulus
and the men of our own day.
The Spartan Pedaretes presented himself for admission to the council
of the Three Hundred and was rejected; he went away rejoicing that there
were three hundred Spartans better than himself. I suppose he was in
earnest; there is no reason to doubt it. That was a citizen.
A Spartan mother had five sons with the army. A Helot arrived; trembling
she asked his news. "Your five sons are slain." "Vile
slave, was that what I asked thee?" "We have won the victory."
She hastened to the temple to render thanks to the gods. That was a
citizen.
He who would preserve the supremacy of natural feelings in social life
knows not what he asks. Ever at war with himself, hesitating between
his wishes and his duties, he will be neither a man nor a citizen. He
will be of no use to himself nor to others. He will be a man of our
day, a Frenchman, an Englishman, one of the great middle class.
To be something, to be himself, and always at one with himself, a man
must act as he speaks, must know what course he ought to take, and must
follow that course with vigour and persistence. When I meet this miracle
it will be time enough to decide whether he is a man or a citizen, or
how he contrives to be both.
Two conflicting types of educational systems spring from these conflicting
aims. One is public and common to many, the other private and domestic.
If you wish to know what is meant by public education, read Plato's
Republic. Those who merely judge books by their titles take this for
a treatise on politics, but it is the finest treatise on education ever
written.
In popular estimation the Platonic Institute stands for all that is
fanciful and unreal. For my own part I should have thought the system
of Lycurgus far more impracticable had he merely committed it to writing.
Plato only sought to purge man's heart; Lycurgus turned it from its
natural course.
The public institute does not and cannot exist, for there is neither
country nor patriot. The very words should be struck out of our language.
The reason does not concern us at present, so that though I know it
I refrain from stating it.
I do not consider our ridiculous colleges [Footnote: There are teachers
dear to me in many schools and especially in the University of Paris,
men for whom I have a great respect, men whom I believe to be quite
capable of instructing young people, if they were not compelled to follow
the established custom. I exhort one of them to publish the scheme of
reform which he has thought out. Perhaps people would at length seek
to cure the evil if they realised that there was a remedy.] as public
institutes, nor do I include under this head a fashionable education,
for this education facing two ways at once achieves nothing. It is only
fit to turn out hypocrites, always professing to live for others, while
thinking of themselves alone. These professions, however, deceive no
one, for every one has his share in them; they are so much labour wasted.
Our inner conflicts are caused by these contradictions. Drawn this way
by nature and that way by man, compelled to yield to both forces, we
make a compromise and reach neither goal. We go through life, struggling
and hesitating, and die before we have found peace, useless alike to
ourselves and to others.
There remains the education of the home or of nature; but how will a
man live with others if he is educated for himself alone? If the twofold
aims could be resolved into one by removing the man's self-contradictions,
one great obstacle to his happiness would be gone. To judge of this
you must see the man full-grown; you must have noted his inclinations,
watched his progress, followed his steps; in a word you must really
know a natural man. When you have read this work, I think you will have
made some progress in this inquiry.
What must be done to train this exceptional man! We can do much, but
the chief thing is to prevent anything being done. To sail against the
wind we merely follow one tack and another; to keep our position in
a stormy sea we must cast anchor. Beware, young pilot, lest your boat
slip its cable or drag its anchor before you know it.
In the social order where each has his own place a man must be educated
for it. If such a one leave his own station he is fit for nothing else.
His education is only useful when fate agrees with his parents' choice;
if not, education harms the scholar, if only by the prejudices it has
created. In Egypt, where the son was compelled to adopt his father's
calling, education had at least a settled aim; where social grades remain
fixed, but the men who form them are constantly changing, no one knows
whether he is not harming his son by educating him for his own class.
In the natural order men are all equal and their common calling is that
of manhood, so that a well-educated man cannot fail to do well in that
calling and those related to it. It matters little to me whether my
pupil is intended for the army, the church, or the law. Before his parents
chose a calling for him nature called him to be a man. Life is the trade
I would teach him. When he leaves me, I grant you, he will be neither
a magistrate, a soldier, nor a priest; he will be a man. All that becomes
a man he will learn as quickly as another. In vain will fate change
his station, he will always be in his right place. "Occupavi te,
fortuna, atque cepi; omnes-que aditus tuos interclusi, ut ad me aspirare
non posses." The real object of our study is man and his environment.
To my mind those of us who can best endure the good and evil of life
are the best educated; hence it follows that true education consists
less in precept than in practice. We begin to learn when we begin to
live; our education begins with ourselves, our first teacher is our
nurse. The ancients used the word "Education" in a different
sense, it meant "Nurture." "Educit obstetrix," says
Varro. "Educat nutrix, instituit paedagogus, docet magister."
Thus, education, discipline, and instruction are three things as different
in their purpose as the dame, the usher, and the teacher. But these
distinctions are undesirable and the child should only follow one guide.
We must therefore look at the general rather than the particular, and
consider our scholar as man in the abstract, man exposed to all the
changes and chances of mortal life. If men were born attached to the
soil of our country, if one season lasted all the year round, if every
man's fortune were so firmly grasped that he could never lose it, then
the established method of education would have certain advantages; the
child brought up to his own calling would never leave it, he could never
have to face the difficulties of any other condition. But when we consider
the fleeting nature of human affairs, the restless and uneasy spirit
of our times, when every generation overturns the work of its predecessor,
can we conceive a more senseless plan than to educate a child as if
he would never leave his room, as if he would always have his servants
about him? If the wretched creature takes a single step up or down he
is lost. This is not teaching him to bear pain; it is training him to
feel it.
People think only of preserving their child's life; this is not enough,
he must be taught to preserve his own life when he is a man, to bear
the buffets of fortune, to brave wealth and poverty, to live at need
among the snows of Iceland or on the scorching rocks of Malta. In vain
you guard against death; he must needs die; and even if you do not kill
him with your precautions, they are mistaken. Teach him to live rather
than to avoid death: life is not breath, but action, the use of our
senses, our mind, our faculties, every part of ourselves which makes
us conscious of our being. Life consists less in length of days than
in the keen sense of living. A man maybe buried at a hundred and may
never have lived at all. He would have fared better had he died young.
Our wisdom is slavish prejudice, our customs consist in control, constraint,
compulsion. Civilised man is born and dies a slave. The infant is bound
up in swaddling clothes, the corpse is nailed down in his coffin. All
his life long man is imprisoned by our institutions.
I am told that many midwives profess to improve the shape of the infant's
head by rubbing, and they are allowed to do it. Our heads are not good
enough as God made them, they must be moulded outside by the nurse and
inside by the philosopher. The Caribs are better off than we are. The
child has hardly left the mother's womb, it has hardly begun to move
and stretch its limbs, when it is deprived of its freedom. It is wrapped
in swaddling bands, laid down with its head fixed, its legs stretched
out, and its arms by its sides; it is wound round with linen and bandages
of all sorts so that it cannot move. It is fortunate if it has room
to breathe, and it is laid on its side so that water which should flow
from its mouth can escape, for it is not free to turn its head on one
side for this purpose.
The new-born child requires to stir and stretch his limbs to free them
from the stiffness resulting from being curled up so long. His limbs
are stretched indeed, but he is not allowed to move them. Even the head
is confined by a cap. One would think they were afraid the child should
look as if it were alive.
Thus the internal impulses which should lead to growth find an insurmountable
obstacle in the way of the necessary movements. The child exhausts his
strength in vain struggles, or he gains strength very slowly. He was
freer and less constrained in the womb; he has gained nothing by birth.
The inaction, the constraint to which the child's limbs are subjected
can only check the circulation of the blood and humours; it can only
hinder the child's growth in size and strength, and injure its constitution.
Where these absurd precautions are absent, all the men are tall, strong,
and well-made. Where children are swaddled, the country swarms with
the hump-backed, the lame, the bow-legged, the rickety, and every kind
of deformity. In our fear lest the body should become deformed by free
movement, we hasten to deform it by putting it in a press. We make our
children helpless lest they should hurt themselves.
Is not such a cruel bondage certain to affect both health and temper?
Their first feeling is one of pain and suffering; they find every necessary
movement hampered; more miserable than a galley slave, in vain they
struggle, they become angry, they cry. Their first words you say are
tears. That is so. From birth you are always checking them, your first
gifts are fetters, your first treatment, torture. Their voice alone
is free; why should they not raise it in complaint? They cry because
you are hurting them; if you were swaddled you would cry louder still.
What is the origin of this senseless and unnatural custom? Since mothers
have despised their first duty and refused to nurse their own children,
they have had to be entrusted to hired nurses. Finding themselves the
mothers of a stranger's children, without the ties of nature, they have
merely tried to save themselves trouble. A child unswaddled would need
constant watching; well swaddled it is cast into a corner and its cries
are unheeded. So long as the nurse's negligence escapes notice, so long
as the nursling does not break its arms or legs, what matter if it dies
or becomes a weakling for life. Its limbs are kept safe at the expense
of its body, and if anything goes wrong it is not the nurse's fault.
These gentle mothers, having got rid of their babies, devote themselves
gaily to the pleasures of the town. Do they know how their children
are being treated in the villages? If the nurse is at all busy, the
child is hung up on a nail like a bundle of clothes and is left crucified
while the nurse goes leisurely about her business. Children have been
found in this position purple in the face, their tightly bandaged chest
forbade the circulation of the blood, and it went to the head; so the
sufferer was considered very quiet because he had not strength to cry.
How long a child might survive under such conditions I do not know,
but it could not be long. That, I fancy, is one of the chief advantages
of swaddling clothes.
It is maintained that unswaddled infants would assume faulty positions
and make movements which might injure the proper development of their
limbs. That is one of the empty arguments of our false wisdom which
has never been confirmed by experience. Out of all the crowds of children
who grow up with the full use of their limbs among nations wiser than
ourselves, you never find one who hurts himself or maims himself; their
movements are too feeble to be dangerous, and when they assume an injurious
position, pain warns them to change it.
We have not yet decided to swaddle our kittens and puppies; are they
any the worse for this neglect? Children are heavier, I admit, but they
are also weaker. They can scarcely move, how could they hurt themselves!
If you lay them on their backs, they will lie there till they die, like
the turtle, unable to turn itself over. Not content with having ceased
to suckle their children, women no longer wish to do it; with the natural
result motherhood becomes a burden; means are found to avoid it. They
will destroy their work to begin it over again, and they thus turn to
the injury of the race the charm which was given them for its increase.
This practice, with other causes of depopulation, forbodes the coming
fate of Europe. Her arts and sciences, her philosophy and morals, will
shortly reduce her to a desert. She will be the home of wild beasts,
and her inhabitants will hardly have changed for the worse.
I have sometimes watched the tricks of young wives who pretend that
they wish to nurse their own children. They take care to be dissuaded
from this whim. They contrive that husbands, doctors, and especially
mothers should intervene. If a husband should let his wife nurse her
own baby it would be the ruin of him; they would make him out a murderer
who wanted to be rid of her. A prudent husband must sacrifice paternal
affection to domestic peace. Fortunately for you there are women in
the country districts more continent than your wives. You are still
more fortunate if the time thus gained is not intended for another than
yourself.
There can be no doubt about a wife's duty, but, considering the contempt
in which it is held, it is doubtful whether it is not just as good for
the child to be suckled by a stranger. This is a question for the doctors
to settle, and in my opinion they have settled it according to the women's
wishes, [Footnote: The league between the women and the doctors has
always struck me as one of the oddest things in Paris. The doctors'
reputation depends on the women, and by means of the doctors the women
get their own way. It is easy to see what qualifications a doctor requires
in Paris if he is to become celebrated.] and for my own part I think
it is better that the child should suck the breast of a healthy nurse
rather than of a petted mother, if he has any further evil to fear from
her who has given him birth.
Ought the question, however, to be considered only from the physiological
point of view? Does not the child need a mother's care as much as her
milk? Other women, or even other animals, may give him the milk she
denies him, but there is no substitute for a mother's love.
The woman who nurses another's child in place of her own is a bad mother;
how can she be a good nurse? She may become one in time; use will overcome
nature, but the child may perish a hundred times before his nurse has
developed a mother's affection for him.
And this affection when developed has its drawbacks, which should make
any feeling woman afraid to put her child out to nurse. Is she prepared
to divide her mother's rights, or rather to abdicate them in favour
of a stranger; to see her child loving another more than herself; to
feel that the affection he retains for his own mother is a favour, while
his love for his foster-mother is a duty; for is not some affection
due where there has been a mother's care?
To remove this difficulty, children are taught to look down on their
nurses, to treat them as mere servants. When their task is completed
the child is withdrawn or the nurse is dismissed. Her visits to her
foster-child are discouraged by a cold reception. After a few years
the child never sees her again. The mother expects to take her place,
and to repair by her cruelty the results of her own neglect. But she
is greatly mistaken; she is making an ungrateful foster-child, not an
affectionate son; she is teaching him ingratitude, and she is preparing
him to despise at a later day the mother who bore him, as he now despises
his nurse.
How emphatically would I speak if it were not so hopeless to keep struggling
in vain on behalf of a real reform. More depends on this than you realise.
Would you restore all men to their primal duties, begin with the mothers;
the results will surprise you. Every evil follows in the train of this
first sin; the whole moral order is disturbed, nature is quenched in
every breast, the home becomes gloomy, the spectacle of a young family
no longer stirs the husband's love and the stranger's reverence. The
mother whose children are out of sight wins scanty esteem; there is
no home life, the ties of nature are not strengthened by those of habit;
fathers, mothers, children, brothers, and sisters cease to exist. They
are almost strangers; how should they love one another? Each thinks
of himself first. When the home is a gloomy solitude pleasure will be
sought elsewhere.
But when mothers deign to nurse their own children, then will be a reform
in morals; natural feeling will revive in every heart; there will be
no lack of citizens for the state; this first step by itself will restore
mutual affection. The charms of home are the best antidote to vice.
The noisy play of children, which we thought so trying, becomes a delight;
mother and father rely more on each other and grow dearer to one another;
the marriage tie is strengthened. In the cheerful home life the mother
finds her sweetest duties and the father his pleasantest recreation.
Thus the cure of this one evil would work a wide-spread reformation;
nature would regain her rights. When women become good mothers, men
will be good husbands and fathers.
My words are vain! When we are sick of worldly pleasures we do not return
to the pleasures of the home. Women have ceased to be mothers, they
do not and will not return to their duty. Could they do it if they would?
The contrary custom is firmly established; each would have to overcome
the opposition of her neighbours, leagued together against the example
which some have never given and others do not desire to follow.
Yet there are still a few young women of good natural disposition who
refuse to be the slaves of fashion and rebel against the clamour of
other women, who fulfil the sweet task imposed on them by nature. Would
that the reward in store for them might draw others to follow their
example. My conclusion is based upon plain reason, and upon facts I
have never seen disputed; and I venture to promise these worthy mothers
the firm and steadfast affection of their husbands and the truly filial
love of their children and the respect of all the world. Child-birth
will be easy and will leave no ill-results, their health will be strong
and vigorous, and they will see their daughters follow their example,
and find that example quoted as a pattern to others.
No mother, no child; their duties are reciprocal, and when ill done
by the one they will be neglected by the other. The child should love
his mother before he knows what he owes her. If the voice of instinct
is not strengthened by habit it soon dies, the heart is still-born.
From the outset we have strayed from the path of nature.
There is another by-way which may tempt our feet from the path of nature.
The mother may lavish excessive care on her child instead of neglecting
him; she may make an idol of him; she may develop and increase his weakness
to prevent him feeling it; she wards off every painful experience in
the hope of withdrawing him from the power of nature, and fails to realise
that for every trifling ill from which she preserves him the future
holds in store many accidents and dangers, and that it is a cruel kindness
to prolong the child's weakness when the grown man must bear fatigue.
Thetis, so the story goes, plunged her son in the waters of Styx to
make him invulnerable. The truth of this allegory is apparent. The cruel
mothers I speak of do otherwise; they plunge their children into softness,
and they are preparing suffering for them, they open the way to every
kind of ill, which their children will not fail to experience after
they grow up.
Fix your eyes on nature, follow the path traced by her. She keeps children
at work, she hardens them by all kinds of difficulties, she soon teaches
them the meaning of pain and grief. They cut their teeth and are feverish,
sharp colics bring on convulsions, they are choked by fits of coughing
and tormented by worms, evil humours corrupt the blood, germs of various
kinds ferment in it, causing dangerous eruptions. Sickness and danger
play the chief part in infancy. One half of the children who are born
die before their eighth year. The child who has overcome hardships has
gained strength, and as soon as he can use his life he holds it more
securely.
This is nature's law; why contradict it? Do you not see that in your
efforts to improve upon her handiwork you are destroying it; her cares
are wasted? To do from without what she does within is according to
you to increase the danger twofold. On the contrary, it is the way to
avert it; experience shows that children delicately nurtured are more
likely to die. Provided we do not overdo it, there is less risk in using
their strength than in sparing it. Accustom them therefore to the hardships
they will have to face; train them to endure extremes of temperature,
climate, and condition, hunger, thirst, and weariness. Dip them in the
waters of Styx. Before bodily habits become fixed you may teach what
habits you will without any risk, but once habits are established any
change is fraught with peril. A child will bear changes which a man
cannot bear, the muscles of the one are soft and flexible, they take
whatever direction you give them without any effort; the muscles of
the grown man are harder and they only change their accustomed mode
of action when subjected to violence. So we can make a child strong
without risking his life or health, and even if there were some risk,
it should not be taken into consideration. Since human life is full
of dangers, can we do better than face them at a time when they can
do the least harm?
A child's worth increases with his years. To his personal value must
be added the cost of the care bestowed upon him. For himself there is
not only loss of life, but the consciousness of death. We must therefore
think most of his future in our efforts for his preservation. He must
be protected against the ills of youth before he reaches them: for if
the value of life increases until the child reaches an age when he can
be useful, what madness to spare some suffering in infancy only to multiply
his pain when he reaches the age of reason. Is that what our master
teaches us!
Man is born to suffer; pain is the means of his preservation. His childhood
is happy, knowing only pain of body. These bodily sufferings are much
less cruel, much less painful, than other forms of suffering, and they
rarely lead to self-destruction. It is not the twinges of gout which
make a man kill himself, it is mental suffering that leads to despair.
We pity the sufferings of childhood; we should pity ourselves; our worst
sorrows are of our own making.
The new-born infant cries, his early days are spent in crying. He is
alternately petted and shaken by way of soothing him; sometimes he is
threatened, sometimes beaten, to keep him quiet. We do what he wants
or we make him do what we want, we submit to his whims or subject him
to our own. There is no middle course; he must rule or obey. Thus his
earliest ideas are those of the tyrant or the slave. He commands before
he can speak, he obeys before he can act, and sometimes he is punished
for faults before he is aware of them, or rather before they are committed.
Thus early are the seeds of evil passions sown in his young heart. At
a later day these are attributed to nature, and when we have taken pains
to make him bad we lament his badness.
In this way the child passes six or seven years in the hands of women,
the victim of his own caprices or theirs, and after they have taught
him all sorts of things, when they have burdened his memory with words
he cannot understand, or things which are of no use to him, when nature
has been stifled by the passions they have implanted in him, this sham
article is sent to a tutor. The tutor completes the development of the
germs of artificiality which he finds already well grown, he teaches
him everything except self-knowledge and self-control, the arts of life
and happiness. When at length this infant slave and tyrant, crammed
with knowledge but empty of sense, feeble alike in mind and body, is
flung upon the world, and his helplessness, his pride, and his other
vices are displayed, we begin to lament the wretchedness and perversity
of mankind. We are wrong; this is the creature of our fantasy; the natural
man is cast in another mould.
Would you keep him as nature made him? Watch over him from his birth.
Take possession of him as soon as he comes into the world and keep him
till he is a man; you will never succeed otherwise. The real nurse is
the mother and the real teacher is the father. Let them agree in the
ordering of their duties as well as in their method, let the child pass
from one to the other. He will be better educated by a sensible though
ignorant father than by the cleverest master in the world. For zeal
will atone for lack of knowledge, rather than knowledge for lack of
zeal. But the duties of public and private business! Duty indeed! Does
a father's duty come last. [Footnote: When we read in Plutarch that
Cato the Censor, who ruled Rome with such glory, brought up his own
sons from the cradle, and so carefully that he left everything to be
present when their nurse, that is to say their mother, bathed them;
when we read in Suetonius that Augustus, the master of the world which
he had conquered and which he himself governed, himself taught his grandsons
to write, to swim, to understand the beginnings of science, and that
he always had them with him, we cannot help smiling at the little people
of those days who amused themselves with such follies, and who were
too ignorant, no doubt, to attend to the great affairs of the great
people of our own time.] It is not surprising that the man whose wife
despises the duty of suckling her child should despise its education.
There is no more charming picture than that of family life; but when
one feature is wanting the whole is marred. If the mother is too delicate
to nurse her child, the father will be too busy to teach him. Their
children, scattered about in schools, convents, and colleges, will find
the home of their affections elsewhere, or rather they will form the
habit of oaring for nothing. Brothers and sisters will scarcely know
each other; when they are together in company they will behave as strangers.
When there is no confidence between relations, when the family society
ceases to give savour to life, its place is soon usurped by vice. Is
there any man so stupid that he cannot see how all this hangs together?
A father has done but a third of his task when he begets children and
provides a living for them. He owes men to humanity, citizens to the
state. A man who can pay this threefold debt and neglect to do so is
guilty, more guilty, perhaps, if he pays it in part than when he neglects
it entirely. He has no right to be a father if he cannot fulfil a father's
duties. Poverty, pressure of business, mistaken social prejudices, none
of these can excuse a man from his duty, which is to support and educate
his own children. If a man of any natural feeling neglects these sacred
duties he will repent it with bitter tears and will never be comforted.
But what does this rich man do, this father of a family, compelled,
so he says, to neglect his children? He pays another man to perform
those duties which are his alone. Mercenary man! do you expect to purchase
a second father for your child? Do not deceive yourself; it is not even
a master you have hired for him, it is a flunkey, who will soon train
such another as himself.
There is much discussion as to the characteristics of a good tutor.
My first requirement, and it implies a good many more, is that he should
not take up his task for reward. There are callings so great that they
cannot be undertaken for money without showing our unfitness for them;
such callings are those of the soldier and the teacher.
"But who must train my child?" "I have just told you,
you should do it yourself." "I cannot." "You cannot!
Then find a friend. I see no other course."
A tutor! What a noble soul! Indeed for the training of a man one must
either be a father or more than man. It is this duty you would calmly
hand over to a hireling!
The more you think of it the harder you will find it. The tutor must
have been trained for his pupil, his servants must have been trained
for their master, so that all who come near him may have received the
impression which is to be transmitted to him. We must pass from education
to education, I know not how far. How can a child be well educated by
one who has not been well educated himself!
Can such a one be found? I know not. In this age of degradation who
knows the height of virtue to which man's soul may attain? But let us
assume that this prodigy has been discovered. We shall learn what he
should be from the consideration of his duties. I fancy the father who
realises the value of a good tutor will contrive to do without one,
for it will be harder to find one than to become such a tutor himself;
he need search no further, nature herself having done half the work.
Some one whose rank alone is known to me suggested that I should educate
his son. He did me a great honour, no doubt, but far from regretting
my refusal, he ought to congratulate himself on my prudence. Had the
offer been accepted, and had I been mistaken in my method, there would
have been an education ruined; had I succeeded, things would have been
worse--his son would have renounced his title and refused to be a prince.
I feel too deeply the importance of a tutor's duties and my own unfitness,
ever to accept such a post, whoever offered it, and even the claims
of friendship would be only an additional motive for my refusal. Few,
I think, will be tempted to make me such an offer when they have read
this book, and I beg any one who would do so to spare his pains. I have
had enough experience of the task to convince myself of my own unfitness,
and my circumstances would make it impossible, even if my talents were
such as to fit me for it. I have thought it my duty to make this public
declaration to those who apparently refuse to do me the honour of believing
in the sincerity of my determination. If I am unable to undertake the
more useful task, I will at least venture to attempt the easier one;
I will follow the example of my predecessors and take up, not the task,
but my pen; and instead of doing the right thing I will try to say it.
I know that in such an undertaking the author, who ranges at will among
theoretical systems, utters many fine precepts impossible to practise,
and even when he says what is practicable it remains undone for want
of details and examples as to its application.
I have therefore decided to take an imaginary pupil, to assume on my
own part the age, health, knowledge, and talents required for the work
of his education, to guide him from birth to manhood, when he needs
no guide but himself. This method seems to me useful for an author who
fears lest he may stray from the practical to the visionary; for as
soon as he departs from common practice he has only to try his method
on his pupil; he will soon know, or the reader will know for him, whether
he is following the development of the child and the natural growth
of the human heart.
This is what I have tried to do. Lest my book should be unduly bulky,
I have been content to state those principles the truth of which is
self-evident. But as to the rules which call for proof, I have applied
them to Emile or to others, and I have shown, in very great detail,
how my theories may be put into practice. Such at least is my plan;
the reader must decide whether I have succeeded. At first I have said
little about Emile, for my earliest maxims of education, though very
different from those generally accepted, are so plain that it is hard
for a man of sense to refuse to accept them, but as I advance, my scholar,
educated after another fashion than yours, is no longer an ordinary
child, he needs a special system. Then he appears upon the scene more
frequently, and towards the end I never lose sight of him for a moment,
until, whatever he may say, he needs me no longer.
I pass over the qualities required in a good tutor; I take them for
granted, and assume that I am endowed with them. As you read this book
you will see how generous I have been to myself.
I will only remark that, contrary to the received opinion, a child's
tutor should be young, as young indeed as a man may well be who is also
wise. Were it possible, he should become a child himself, that he may
be the companion of his pupil and win his confidence by sharing his
games. Childhood and age have too little in common for the formation
of a really firm affection. Children sometimes flatter old men; they
never love them.
People seek a tutor who has already educated one pupil. This is too
much; one man can only educate one pupil; if two were essential to success,
what right would he have to undertake the first? With more experience
you may know better what to do, but you are less capable of doing it;
once this task has been well done, you will know too much of its difficulties
to attempt it a second time--if ill done, the first attempt augurs badly
for the second.
It is one thing to follow a young man about for four years, another
to be his guide for five-and-twenty. You find a tutor for your son when
he is already formed; I want one for him before he is born. Your man
may change his pupil every five years; mine will never have but one
pupil. You distinguish between the teacher and the tutor. Another piece
of folly! Do you make any distinction between the pupil and the scholar?
There is only one science for children to learn--the duties of man.
This science is one, and, whatever Xenophon may say of the education
of the Persians, it is indivisible. Besides, I prefer to call the man
who has this knowledge master rather than teacher, since it is a question
of guidance rather than instruction. He must not give precepts, he must
let the scholar find them out for himself.
If the master is to be so carefully chosen, he may well choose his pupil,
above all when he proposes to set a pattern for others. This choice
cannot depend on the child's genius or character, as I adopt him before
he is born, and they are only known when my task is finished. If I had
my choice I would take a child of ordinary mind, such as I assume in
my pupil. It is ordinary people who have to be educated, and their education
alone can serve as a pattern for the education of their fellows. The
others find their way alone.
The birthplace is not a matter of indifference in the education of man;
it is only in temperate climes that he comes to his full growth. The
disadvantages of extremes are easily seen. A man is not planted in one
place like a tree, to stay there the rest of his life, and to pass from
one extreme to another you must travel twice as far as he who starts
half-way.
If the inhabitant of a temperate climate passes in turn through both
extremes his advantage is plain, for although he may be changed as much
as he who goes from one extreme to the other, he only removes half-way
from his natural condition. A Frenchman can live in New Guinea or in
Lapland, but a negro cannot live in Tornea nor a Samoyed in Benin. It
seems also as if the brain were less perfectly organised in the two
extremes. Neither the negroes nor the Laps are as wise as Europeans.
So if I want my pupil to be a citizen of the world I will choose him
in the temperate zone, in France for example, rather than elsewhere.
In the north with its barren soil men devour much food, in the fertile
south they eat little. This produces another difference: the one is
industrious, the other contemplative. Society shows us, in one and the
same spot, a similar difference between rich and poor. The one dwells
in a fertile land, the other in a barren land.
The poor man has no need of education. The education of his own station
in life is forced upon him, he can have no other; the education received
by the rich man from his own station is least fitted for himself and
for society. Moreover, a natural education should fit a man for any
position. Now it is more unreasonable to train a poor man for wealth
than a rich man for poverty, for in proportion to their numbers more
rich men are ruined and fewer poor men become rich. Let us choose our
scholar among the rich; we shall at least have made another man; the
poor may come to manhood without our help.
For the same reason I should not be sorry if Emile came of a good family.
He will be another victim snatched from prejudice.
Emile is an orphan. No matter whether he has father or mother, having
undertaken their duties I am invested with their rights. He must honour
his parents, but he must obey me. That is my first and only condition.
I must add that there is just one other point arising out of this; we
must never be separated except by mutual consent. This clause is essential,
and I would have tutor and scholar so inseparable that they should regard
their fate as one. If once they perceive the time of their separation
drawing near, the time which must make them strangers to one another,
they become strangers then and there; each makes his own little world,
and both of them being busy in thought with the time when they will
no longer be together, they remain together against their will. The
disciple regards his master as the badge and scourge of childhood, the
master regards his scholar as a heavy burden which he longs to be rid
of. Both are looking forward to the time when they will part, and as
there is never any real affection between them, there will be scant
vigilance on the one hand, and on the other scant obedience.
But when they consider they must always live together, they must needs
love one another, and in this way they really learn to love one another.
The pupil is not ashamed to follow as a child the friend who will be
with him in manhood; the tutor takes an interest in the efforts whose
fruits he will enjoy, and the virtues he is cultivating in his pupil
form a store laid up for his old age.
This agreement made beforehand assumes a normal birth, a strong, well-made,
healthy child. A father has no choice, and should have no preference
within the limits of the family God has given him; all his children
are his alike, the same care and affection is due to all. Crippled or
well-made, weak or strong, each of them is a trust for which he is responsible
to the Giver, and nature is a party to the marriage contract along with
husband and wife.
But if you undertake a duty not imposed upon you by nature, you must
secure beforehand the means for its fulfilment, unless you would undertake
duties you cannot fulfil. If you take the care of a sickly, unhealthy
child, you are a sick nurse, not a tutor. To preserve a useless life
you are wasting the time which should be spent in increasing its value,
you risk the sight of a despairing mother reproaching you for the death
of her child, who ought to have died long ago.
I would not undertake the care of a feeble, sickly child, should he
live to four score years. I want no pupil who is useless alike to himself
and others, one whose sole business is to keep himself alive, one whose
body is always a hindrance to the training of his mind. If I vainly
lavish my care upon him, what can I do but double the loss to society
by robbing it of two men, instead of one? Let another tend this weakling
for me; I am quite willing, I approve his charity, but I myself have
no gift for such a task; I could never teach the art of living to one
who needs all his strength to keep himself alive.
The body must be strong enough to obey the mind; a good servant must
be strong. I know that intemperance stimulates the passions; in course
of time it also destroys the body; fasting and penance often produce
the same results in an opposite way. The weaker the body, the more imperious
its demands; the stronger it is, the better it obeys. All sensual passions
find their home in effeminate bodies; the less satisfaction they can
get the keener their sting.
A feeble body makes a feeble mind. Hence the influence of physic, an
art which does more harm to man than all the evils it professes to cure.
I do not know what the doctors cure us of, but I know this: they infect
us with very deadly diseases, cowardice, timidity, credulity, the fear
of death. What matter if they make the dead walk, we have no need of
corpses; they fail to give us men, and it is men we need.
Medicine is all the fashion in these days, and very naturally. It is
the amusement of the idle and unemployed, who do not know what to do
with their time, and so spend it in taking care of themselves. If by
ill-luck they had happened to be born immortal, they would have been
the most miserable of men; a life they could not lose would be of no
value to them. Such men must have doctors to threaten and flatter them,
to give them the only pleasure they can enjoy, the pleasure of not being
dead.
I will say no more at present as to the uselessness of medicine. My
aim is to consider its bearings on morals. Still I cannot refrain from
saying that men employ the same sophism about medicine as they do about
the search for truth. They assume that the patient is cured and that
the seeker after truth finds it. They fail to see that against one life
saved by the doctors you must set a hundred slain, and against the value
of one truth discovered the errors which creep in with it. The science
which instructs and the medicine which heals are no doubt excellent,
but the science which misleads us and the medicine which kills us are
evil. Teach us to know them apart. That is the real difficulty. If we
were content to be ignorant of truth we should not be the dupes of falsehood;
if we did not want to be cured in spite of nature, we should not be
killed by the doctors. We should do well to steer clear of both, and
we should evidently be the gainers. I do not deny that medicine is useful
to some men; I assert that it is fatal to mankind.
You will tell me, as usual, that the doctors are to blame, that medicine
herself is infallible. Well and good, then give us the medicine without
the doctor, for when we have both, the blunders of the artist are a
hundredfold greater than our hopes from the art. This lying art, invented
rather for the ills of the mind than of the body, is useless to both
alike; it does less to cure us of our diseases than to fill us with
alarm. It does less to ward off death than to make us dread its approach.
It exhausts life rather than prolongs it; should it even prolong life
it would only be to the prejudice of the race, since it makes us set
its precautions before society and our fears before our duties. It is
the knowledge of danger that makes us afraid. If we thought ourselves
invulnerable we should know no fear. The poet armed Achilles against
danger and so robbed him of the merit of courage; on such terms any
man would be an Achilles.
Would you find a really brave man? Seek him where there are no doctors,
where the results of disease are unknown, and where death is little
thought of. By nature a man bears pain bravely and dies in peace. It
is the doctors with their rules, the philosophers with their precepts,
the priests with their exhortations, who debase the heart and make us
afraid to die.
Give me a pupil who has no need of these, or I will have nothing to
do with him. No one else shall spoil my work, I will educate him myself
or not at all. That wise man, Locke, who had devoted part of his life
to the study of medicine, advises us to give no drugs to the child,
whether as a precaution, or on account of slight ailments. I will go
farther, and will declare that, as I never call in a doctor for myself,
I will never send for one for Emile, unless his life is clearly in danger,
when the doctor can but kill him.
I know the doctor will make capital out of my delay. If the child dies,
he was called in too late; if he recovers, it is his doing. So be it;
let the doctor boast, but do not call him in except in extremity.
As the child does not know how to be cured, he knows how to be ill.
The one art takes the place of the other and is often more successful;
it is the art of nature. When a beast is ill, it keeps quiet and suffers
in silence; but we see fewer sickly animals than sick men. How many
men have been slain by impatience, fear, anxiety, and above all by medicine,
men whom disease would have spared, and time alone have cured. I shall
be told that animals, who live according to nature, are less liable
to disease than ourselves. Well, that way of living is just what I mean
to teach my pupil; he should profit by it in the same way.
Hygiene is the only useful part of medicine, and hygiene is rather a
virtue than a science. Temperance and industry are man's true remedies;
work sharpens his appetite and temperance teaches him to control it.
To learn what system is most beneficial you have only to study those
races remarkable for health, strength, and length of days. If common
observation shows us that medicine neither increases health nor prolongs
life, it follows that this useless art is worse than useless, since
it wastes time, men, and things on what is pure loss. Not only must
we deduct the time spent, not in using life, but preserving it, but
if this time is spent in tormenting ourselves it is worse than wasted,
it is so much to the bad, and to reckon fairly a corresponding share
must be deducted from what remains to us. A man who lives ten years
for himself and others without the help of doctors lives more for himself
and others than one who spends thirty years as their victim. I have
tried both, so I think I have a better right than most to draw my own
conclusions.
For these reasons I decline to take any but a strong and healthy pupil,
and these are my principles for keeping him in health. I will not stop
to prove at length the value of manual labour and bodily exercise for
strengthening the health and constitution; no one denies it. Nearly
all the instances of long life are to be found among the men who have
taken most exercise, who have endured fatigue and labour. [Footnote:
I cannot help quoting the following passage from an English newspaper,
as it throws much light on my opinions: "A certain Patrick O'Neil,
born in 1647, has just married his seventh wife in 1760. In the seventeenth
year of Charles II. he served in the dragoons and in other regiments
up to 1740, when he took his discharge. He served in all the campaigns
of William III. and Marlborough. This man has never drunk anything but
small beer; he has always lived on vegetables, and has never eaten meat
except on few occasions when he made a feast for his relations. He has
always been accustomed to rise with the sun and go to bed at sunset
unless prevented by his military duties. He is now in his 130th year;
he is healthy, his hearing is good, and he walks with the help of a
stick. In spite of his great age he is never idle, and every Sunday
he goes to his parish church accompanied by his children, grandchildren,
and great grandchildren."] Neither will I enter into details as
to the care I shall take for this alone. It will be clear that it forms
such an essential part of my practice that it is enough to get hold
of the idea without further explanation.
When our life begins our needs begin too. The new-born infant must have
a nurse. If his mother will do her duty, so much the better; her instructions
will be given her in writing, but this advantage has its drawbacks,
it removes the tutor from his charge. But it is to be hoped that the
child's own interests, and her respect for the person to whom she is
about to confide so precious a treasure, will induce the mother to follow
the master's wishes, and whatever she does you may be sure she will
do better than another. If we must have a strange nurse, make a good
choice to begin with.
It is one of the misfortunes of the rich to be cheated on all sides;
what wonder they think ill of mankind! It is riches that corrupt men,
and the rich are rightly the first to feel the defects of the only tool
they know. Everything is ill-done for them, except what they do themselves,
and they do next to nothing. When a nurse must be selected the choice
is left to the doctor. What happens? The best nurse is the one who offers
the highest bribe. I shall not consult the doctor about Emile's nurse,
I shall take care to choose her myself. I may not argue about it so
elegantly as the surgeon, but I shall be more reliable, I shall be less
deceived by my zeal than the doctor by his greed.
There is no mystery about this choice; its rules are well known, but
I think we ought probably to pay more attention to the age of the milk
as well as its quality. The first milk is watery, it must be almost
an aperient, to purge the remains of the meconium curdled in the bowels
of the new-born child. Little by little the milk thickens and supplies
more solid food as the child is able to digest it. It is surely not
without cause that nature changes the milk in the female of every species
according to the age of the offspring.
Thus a new-born child requires a nurse who has recently become mother.
There is, I know, a difficulty here, but as soon as we leave the path
of nature there are difficulties in the way of all well-doing. The wrong
course is the only right one under the circumstances, so we take it.
The nurse must be healthy alike in disposition and in body. The violence
of the passions as well as the humours may spoil her milk. Moreover,
to consider the body only is to keep only half our aim in view. The
milk may be good and the nurse bad; a good character is as necessary
as a good constitution. If you choose a vicious person, I do not say
her foster-child will acquire her vices, but he will suffer for them.
Ought she not to bestow on him day by day, along with her milk, a care
which calls for zeal, patience, gentleness, and cleanliness. If she
is intemperate and greedy her milk will soon be spoilt; if she is careless
and hasty what will become of a poor little wretch left to her mercy,
and unable either to protect himself or to complain. The wicked are
never good for anything.
The choice is all the more important because her foster-child should
have no other guardian, just as he should have no teacher but his tutor.
This was the custom of the ancients, who talked less but acted more
wisely than we. The nurse never left her foster-daughter; this is why
the nurse is the confidante in most of their plays. A child who passes
through many hands in turn, can never be well brought up.
At every change he makes a secret comparison, which continually tends
to lessen his respect for those who control him, and with it their authority
over him. If once he thinks there are grown-up people with no more sense
than children the authority of age is destroyed and his education is
ruined. A child should know no betters but its father and mother, or
failing them its foster-mother and its tutor, and even this is one too
many, but this division is inevitable, and the best that can be done
in the way of remedy is that the man and woman who control him shall
be so well agreed with regard to him that they seem like one.
The nurse must live rather more comfortably, she must have rather more
substantial food, but her whole way of living must not be altered, for
a sudden change, even a change for the better, is dangerous to health,
and since her usual way of life has made her healthy and strong, why
change it?
Country women eat less meat and more vegetables than towns-women, and
this vegetarian diet seems favourable rather than otherwise to themselves
and their children. When they take nurslings from the upper classes
they eat meat and broth with the idea that they will form better chyle
and supply more milk. I do not hold with this at all, and experience
is on my side, for we do not find children fed in this way less liable
to colic and worms.
That need not surprise us, for decaying animal matter swarms with worms,
but this is not the case with vegetable matter. [Footnote: Women eat
bread, vegetables, and dairy produce; female dogs and cats do the same;
the she-wolves eat grass. This supplies vegetable juices to their milk.
There are still those species which are unable to eat anything but flesh,
if such there are, which I very much doubt.] Milk, although manufactured
in the body of an animal, is a vegetable substance; this is shown by
analysis; it readily turns acid, and far from showing traces of any
volatile alkali like animal matter, it gives a neutral salt like plants.
The milk of herbivorous creatures is sweeter and more wholesome than
the milk of the carnivorous; formed of a substance similar to its own,
it keeps its goodness and becomes less liable to putrifaction. If quantity
is considered, it is well known that farinaceous foods produce more
blood than meat, so they ought to yield more milk. If a child were not
weaned too soon, and if it were fed on vegetarian food, and its foster-mother
were a vegetarian, I do not think it would be troubled with worms.
Milk derived from vegetable foods may perhaps be more liable to go sour,
but I am far from considering sour milk an unwholesome food; whole nations
have no other food and are none the worse, and all the array of absorbents
seems to me mere humbug. There are constitutions which do not thrive
on milk, others can take it without absorbents. People are afraid of
the milk separating or curdling; that is absurd, for we know that milk
always curdles in the stomach. This is how it becomes sufficiently solid
to nourish children and young animals; if it did not curdle it would
merely pass away without feeding them. [Footnote: Although the juices
which nourish us are liquid, they must be extracted from solids. A hard-working
man who ate nothing but soup would soon waste away. He would be far
better fed on milk, just because it curdles.] In vain you dilute milk
and use absorbents; whoever swallows milk digests cheese, this rule
is without exception; rennet is made from a calf's stomach.
Instead of changing the nurse's usual diet, I think it would be enough
to give food in larger quantities and better of its kind. It is not
the nature of the food that makes a vegetable diet indigestible, but
the flavouring that makes it unwholesome. Reform your cookery, use neither
butter nor oil for frying. Butter, salt, and milk should never be cooked.
Let your vegetables be cooked in water and only seasoned when they come
to table. The vegetable diet, far from disturbing the nurse, will give
her a plentiful supply of milk. [Footnote: Those who wish to study a
full account of the advantages and disadvantages of the Pythagorean
regime, may consult the works of Dr. Cocchi and his opponent Dr. Bianchi
on this important subject.] If a vegetable diet is best for the child,
how can meat food be best for his nurse? The things are contradictory.
Fresh air affects children's constitutions, particularly in early years.
It enters every pore of a soft and tender skin, it has a powerful effect
on their young bodies. Its effects can never be destroyed. So I should
not agree with those who take a country woman from her village and shut
her up in one room in a town and her nursling with her. I would rather
send him to breathe the fresh air of the country than the foul air of
the town. He will take his new mother's position, will live in her cottage,
where his tutor will follow him. The reader will bear in mind that this
tutor is not a paid servant, but the father's friend. But if this friend
cannot be found, if this transfer is not easy, if none of my advice
can be followed, you will say to me, "What shall I do instead?"
I have told you already--"Do what you are doing;" no advice
is needed there.
Men are not made to be crowded together in ant-hills, but scattered
over the earth to till it. The more they are massed together, the more
corrupt they become. Disease and vice are the sure results of over-crowded
cities. Of all creatures man is least fitted to live in herds. Huddled
together like sheep, men would very soon die. Man's breath is fatal
to his fellows. This is literally as well as figuratively true.
Men are devoured by our towns. In a few generations the race dies out
or becomes degenerate; it needs renewal, and it is always renewed from
the country. Send your children to renew themselves, so to speak, send
them to regain in the open fields the strength lost in the foul air
of our crowded cities. Women hurry home that their children may be born
in the town; they ought to do just the opposite, especially those who
mean to nurse their own children. They would lose less than they think,
and in more natural surroundings the pleasures associated by nature
with maternal duties would soon destroy the taste for other delights.
The new-born infant is first bathed in warm water to which a little
wine is usually added. I think the wine might be dispensed with. As
nature does not produce fermented liquors, it is not likely that they
are of much value to her creatures.
In the same way it is unnecessary to take the precaution of heating
the water; in fact among many races the new-born infants are bathed
with no more ado in rivers or in the sea. Our children, made tender
before birth by the softness of their parents, come into the world with
a constitution already enfeebled, which cannot be at once exposed to
all the trials required to restore it to health. Little by little they
must be restored to their natural vigour. Begin then by following this
custom, and leave it off gradually. Wash your children often, their
dirty ways show the need of this. If they are only wiped their skin
is injured; but as they grow stronger gradually reduce the heat of the
water, till at last you bathe them winter and summer in cold, even in
ice-cold water. To avoid risk this change must be slow, gradual, and
imperceptible, so you may use the thermometer for exact measurements.
This habit of the bath, once established, should never be broken off,
it must be kept up all through life. I value it not only on grounds
of cleanliness and present health, but also as a wholesome means of
making the muscles supple, and accustoming them to bear without risk
or effort extremes of heat and cold. As he gets older I would have the
child trained to bathe occasionally in hot water of every bearable degree,
and often in every degree of cold water. Now water being a denser fluid
touches us at more points than air, so that, having learnt to bear all
the variations of temperature in water, we shall scarcely feel this
of the air. [Footnote: Children in towns are stifled by being kept indoors
and too much wrapped up. Those who control them have still to learn
that fresh air, far from doing them harm, will make them strong, while
hot air will make them weak, will give rise to fevers, and will eventually
kill them.]
When the child draws its first breath do not confine it in tight wrappings.
No cap, no bandages, nor swaddling clothes. Loose and flowing flannel
wrappers, which leave its limbs free and are not too heavy to check
his movements, not too warm to prevent his feeling the air. [Footnote:
I say "cradle" using the common word for want of a better,
though I am convinced that it is never necessary and often harmful to
rock children in the cradle.] Put him in a big cradle, well padded,
where he can move easily and safely. As he begins to grow stronger,
let him crawl about the room; let him develop and stretch his tiny limbs;
you will see him gain strength from day to day. Compare him with a well
swaddled child of the same age and you will be surprised at their different
rates of progress. [Footnote: The ancient Peruvians wrapped their children
in loose swaddling bands, leaving the arms quite free. Later they placed
them unswaddled in a hole in the ground, lined with cloths, so that
the lower part of the body was in the hole, and their arms were free
and they could move the head and bend the body at will without falling
or hurting themselves. When they began to walk they were enticed to
come to the breast. The little negroes are often in a position much
more difficult for sucking. They cling to the mother's hip, and cling
so tightly that the mother's arm is often not needed to support them.
They clasp the breast with their hand and continue sucking while their
mother goes on with her ordinary work. These children begin to walk
at two months, or rather to crawl. Later on they can run on all fours
almost as well as on their feet.--Buffon. M. Buffon might also have
quoted the example of England, where the senseless and barbarous swaddling
clothes have become almost obsolete. Cf. La Longue Voyage de Siam, Le
Beau Voyage de Canada, etc.]
You must expect great opposition from the nurses, who find a half strangled
baby needs much less watching. Besides his dirtyness is more perceptible
in an open garment; he must be attended to more frequently. Indeed,
custom is an unanswerable argument in some lands and among all classes
of people.
Do not argue with the nurses; give your orders, see them carried out,
and spare no pains to make the attention you prescribe easy in practice.
Why not take your share in it? With ordinary nurslings, where the body
alone is thought of, nothing matters so long as the child lives and
does not actually die, but with us, when education begins with life,
the new-born child is already a disciple, not of his tutor, but of nature.
The tutor merely studies under this master, and sees that his orders
are not evaded. He watches over the infant, he observes it, he looks
for the first feeble glimmering of intelligence, as the Moslem looks
for the moment of the moon's rising in her first quarter.
We are born capable of learning, but knowing nothing, perceiving nothing.
The mind, bound up within imperfect and half grown organs, is not even
aware of its own existence. The movements and cries of the new-born
child are purely reflex, without knowledge or will.
Suppose a child born with the size and strength of manhood, entering
upon life full grown like Pallas from the brain of Jupiter; such a child-man
would be a perfect idiot, an automaton, a statue without motion and
almost without feeling; he would see and hear nothing, he would recognise
no one, he could not turn his eyes towards what he wanted to see; not
only would he perceive no external object, he would not even be aware
of sensation through the several sense-organs. His eye would not perceive
colour, his ear sounds, his body would be unaware of contact with neighbouring
bodies, he would not even know he had a body, what his hands handled
would be in his brain alone; all his sensations would be united in one
place, they would exist only in the common "sensorium," he
would have only one idea, that of self, to which he would refer all
his sensations; and this idea, or rather this feeling, would be the
only thing in which he excelled an ordinary child.
This man, full grown at birth, would also be unable to stand on his
feet, he would need a long time to learn how to keep his balance; perhaps
he would not even be able to try to do it, and you would see the big
strong body left in one place like a stone, or creeping and crawling
like a young puppy.
He would feel the discomfort of bodily needs without knowing what was
the matter and without knowing how to provide for these needs. There
is no immediate connection between the muscles of the stomach and those
of the arms and legs to make him take a step towards food, or stretch
a hand to seize it, even were he surrounded with it; and as his body
would be full grown and his limbs well developed he would be without
the perpetual restlessness and movement of childhood, so that he might
die of hunger without stirring to seek food. However little you may
have thought about the order and development of our knowledge, you cannot
deny that such a one would be in the state of almost primitive ignorance
and stupidity natural to man before he has learnt anything from experience
or from his fellows.
We know then, or we may know, the point of departure from which we each
start towards the usual level of understanding; but who knows the other
extreme? Each progresses more or less according to his genius, his taste,
his needs, his talents, his zeal, and his opportunities for using them.
No philosopher, so far as I know, has dared to say to man, "Thus
far shalt thou go and no further." We know not what nature allows
us to be, none of us has measured the possible difference between man
and man. Is there a mind so dead that this thought has never kindled
it, that has never said in his pride, "How much have I already
done, how much more may I achieve? Why should I lag behind my fellows?"
As I said before, man's education begins at birth; before he can speak
or understand he is learning. Experience precedes instruction; when
he recognises his nurse he has learnt much. The knowledge of the most
ignorant man would surprise us if we had followed his course from birth
to the present time. If all human knowledge were divided into two parts,
one common to all, the other peculiar to the learned, the latter would
seem very small compared with the former. But we scarcely heed this
general experience, because it is acquired before the age of reason.
Moreover, knowledge only attracts attention by its rarity, as in algebraic
equations common factors count for nothing. Even animals learn much.
They have senses and must learn to use them; they have needs, they must
learn to satisfy them; they must learn to eat, walk, or fly. Quadrupeds
which can stand on their feet from the first cannot walk for all that;
from their first attempts it is clear that they lack confidence. Canaries
who escape from their cage are unable to fly, having never used their
wings. Living and feeling creatures are always learning. If plants could
walk they would need senses and knowledge, else their species would
die out. The child's first mental experiences are purely affective,
he is only aware of pleasure and pain; it takes him a long time to acquire
the definite sensations which show him things outside himself, but before
these things present and withdraw themselves, so to speak, from his
sight, taking size and shape for him, the recurrence of emotional experiences
is beginning to subject the child to the rule of habit. You see his
eyes constantly follow the light, and if the light comes from the side
the eyes turn towards it, so that one must be careful to turn his head
towards the light lest he should squint. He must also be accustomed
from the first to the dark, or he will cry if he misses the light. Food
and sleep, too, exactly measured, become necessary at regular intervals,
and soon desire is no longer the effect of need, but of habit, or rather
habit adds a fresh need to those of nature. You must be on your guard
against this.
The only habit the child should be allowed to contract is that of having
no habits; let him be carried on either arm, let him be accustomed to
offer either hand, to use one or other indifferently; let him not want
to eat, sleep, or do anything at fixed hours, nor be unable to be left
alone by day or night. Prepare the way for his control of his liberty
and the use of his strength by leaving his body its natural habit, by
making him capable of lasting self-control, of doing all that he wills
when his will is formed.
As soon as the child begins to take notice, what is shown him must be
carefully chosen. The natural man is interested in all new things. He
feels so feeble that he fears the unknown: the habit of seeing fresh
things without ill effects destroys this fear. Children brought up in
clean houses where there are no spiders are afraid of spiders, and this
fear often lasts through life. I never saw peasants, man, woman, or
child, afraid of spiders.
Since the mere choice of things shown him may make the child timid or
brave, why should not his education begin before he can speak or understand?
I would have him accustomed to see fresh things, ugly, repulsive, and
strange beasts, but little by little, and far off till he is used to
them, and till having seen others handle them he handles them himself.
If in childhood he sees toads, snakes, and crayfish, he will not be
afraid of any animal when he is grown up. Those who are continually
seeing terrible things think nothing of them.
All children are afraid of masks. I begin by showing Emile a mask with
a pleasant face, then some one puts this mask before his face; I begin
to laugh, they all laugh too, and the child with them. By degrees I
accustom him to less pleasing masks, and at last hideous ones. If I
have arranged my stages skilfully, far from being afraid of the last
mask, he will laugh at it as he did at the first. After that I am not
afraid of people frightening him with masks.
When Hector bids farewell to Andromache, the young Astyanax, startled
by the nodding plumes on the helmet, does not know his father; he flings
himself weeping upon his nurse's bosom and wins from his mother a smile
mingled with tears. What must be done to stay this terror? Just what
Hector did; put the helmet on the ground and caress the child. In a
calmer moment one would do more; one would go up to the helmet, play
with the plumes, let the child feel them; at last the nurse would take
the helmet and place it laughingly on her own head, if indeed a woman's
hand dare touch the armour of Hector.
If Emile must get used to the sound of a gun, I first fire a pistol
with a small charge. He is delighted with this sudden flash, this sort
of lightning; I repeat the process with more powder; gradually I add
a small charge without a wad, then a larger; in the end I accustom him
to the sound of a gun, to fireworks, cannon, and the most terrible explosions.
I have observed that children are rarely afraid of thunder unless the
peals are really terrible and actually hurt the ear, otherwise this
fear only comes to them when they know that thunder sometimes hurts
or kills. When reason begins to cause fear, let use reassure them. By
slow and careful stages man and child learn to fear nothing.
In the dawn of life, when memory and imagination have not begun to function,
the child only attends to what affects its senses. His sense experiences
are the raw material of thought; they should, therefore, be presented
to him in fitting order, so that memory may at a future time present
them in the same order to his understanding; but as he only attends
to his sensations it is enough, at first, to show him clearly the connection
between these sensations and the things which cause them. He wants to
touch and handle everything; do not check these movements which teach
him invaluable lessons. Thus he learns to perceive the heat, cold, hardness,
softness, weight, or lightness of bodies, to judge their size and shape
and all their physical properties, by looking, feeling, [Footnote: Of
all the senses that of smell is the latest to develop in children up
to two or three years of age they appear to be insensible of pleasant
or unpleasant odours; in this respect they are as indifferent or rather
as insensible as many animals.] listening, and, above all, by comparing
sight and touch, by judging with the eye what sensation they would cause
to his hand.
It is only by movement that we learn the difference between self and
not self; it is only by our own movements that we gain the idea of space.
The child has not this idea, so he stretches out his hand to seize the
object within his reach or that which is a hundred paces from him. You
take this as a sign of tyranny, an attempt to bid the thing draw near,
or to bid you bring it. Nothing of the kind, it is merely that the object
first seen in his brain, then before his eyes, now seems close to his
arms, and he has no idea of space beyond his reach. Be careful, therefore,
to take him about, to move him from place to place, and to let him perceive
the change in his surroundings, so as to teach him to judge of distances.
When he begins to perceive distances then you must change your plan,
and only carry him when you please, not when he pleases; for as soon
as he is no longer deceived by his senses, there is another motive for
his effort. This change is remarkable and calls for explanation.
The discomfort caused by real needs is shown by signs, when the help
of others is required. Hence the cries of children; they often cry;
it must be so. Since they are only conscious of feelings, when those
feelings are pleasant they enjoy them in silence; when they are painful
they say so in their own way and demand relief. Now when they are awake
they can scarcely be in a state of indifference, either they are asleep
or else they are feeling something.
All our languages are the result of art. It has long been a subject
of inquiry whether there ever was a natural language common to all;
no doubt there is, and it is the language of children before they begin
to speak. This language is inarticulate, but it has tone, stress, and
meaning. The use of our own language has led us to neglect it so far
as to forget it altogether. Let us study children and we shall soon
learn it afresh from them. Nurses can teach us this language; they understand
all their nurslings say to them, they answer them, and keep up long
conversations with them; and though they use words, these words are
quite useless. It is not the hearing of the word, but its accompanying
intonation that is understood.
To the language of intonation is added the no less forcible language
of gesture. The child uses, not its weak hands, but its face. The amount
of expression in these undeveloped faces is extraordinary; their features
change from one moment to another with incredible speed. You see smiles,
desires, terror, come and go like lightning; every time the face seems
different. The muscles of the face are undoubtedly more mobile than
our own. On the other hand the eyes are almost expressionless. Such
must be the sort of signs they use at an age when their only needs are
those of the body. Grimaces are the sign of sensation, the glance expresses
sentiment.
As man's first state is one of want and weakness, his first sounds are
cries and tears. The child feels his needs and cannot satisfy them,
he begs for help by his cries. Is he hungry or thirsty? there are tears;
is he too cold or too hot? more tears; he needs movement and is kept
quiet, more tears; he wants to sleep and is disturbed, he weeps. The
less comfortable he is, the more he demands change. He has only one
language because he has, so to say, only one kind of discomfort. In
the imperfect state of his sense organs he does not distinguish their
several impressions; all ills produce one feeling of sorrow.
These tears, which you think so little worthy of your attention, give
rise to the first relation between man and his environment; here is
forged the first link in the long chain of social order.
When the child cries he is uneasy, he feels some need which he cannot
satisfy; you watch him, seek this need, find it, and satisfy it. If
you can neither find it nor satisfy it, the tears continue and become
tiresome. The child is petted to quiet him, he is rocked or sung to
sleep; if he is obstinate, the nurse becomes impatient and threatens
him; cruel nurses sometimes strike him. What strange lessons for him
at his first entrance into life!
I shall never forget seeing one of these troublesome crying children
thus beaten by his nurse. He was silent at once. I thought he was frightened,
and said to myself, "This will be a servile being from whom nothing
can be got but by harshness." I was wrong, the poor wretch was
choking with rage, he could not breathe, he was black in the face. A
moment later there were bitter cries, every sign of the anger, rage,
and despair of this age was in his tones. I thought he would die. Had
I doubted the innate sense of justice and injustice in man's heart,
this one instance would have convinced me. I am sure that a drop of
boiling liquid falling by chance on that child's hand would have hurt
him less than that blow, slight in itself, but clearly given with the
intention of hurting him.
This tendency to anger, vexation, and rage needs great care. Boerhaave
thinks that most of the diseases of children are of the nature of convulsions,
because the head being larger in proportion and the nervous system more
extensive than in adults, they are more liable to nervous irritation.
Take the greatest care to remove from them any servants who tease, annoy,
or vex them. They are a hundredfold more dangerous and more fatal than
fresh air and changing seasons. When children only experience resistance
in things and never in the will of man, they do not become rebellious
or passionate, and their health is better. This is one reason why the
children of the poor, who are freer and more independent, are generally
less frail and weakly, more vigorous than those who are supposed to
be better brought up by being constantly thwarted; but you must always
remember that it is one thing to refrain from thwarting them, but quite
another to obey them. The child's first tears are prayers, beware lest
they become commands; he begins by asking for aid, he ends by demanding
service. Thus from his own weakness, the source of his first consciousness
of dependence, springs the later idea of rule and tyranny; but as this
idea is aroused rather by his needs than by our services, we begin to
see moral results whose causes are not in nature; thus we see how important
it is, even at the earliest age, to discern the secret meaning of the
gesture or cry.
When the child tries to seize something without speaking, he thinks
he can reach the object, for he does not rightly judge its distance;
when he cries and stretches out his hands he no longer misjudges the
distance, he bids the object approach, or orders you to bring it to
him. In the first case bring it to him slowly; in the second do not
even seem to hear his cries. The more he cries the less you should heed
him. He must learn in good time not to give commands to men, for he
is not their master, nor to things, for they cannot hear him. Thus when
the child wants something you mean to give him, it is better to carry
him to it rather than to bring the thing to him. From this he will draw
a conclusion suited to his age, and there is no other way of suggesting
it to him.
The Abbe Saint-Pierre calls men big children; one might also call children
little men. These statements are true, but they require explanation.
But when Hobbes calls the wicked a strong child, his statement is contradicted
by facts. All wickedness comes from weakness. The child is only naughty
because he is weak; make him strong and he will be good; if we could
do everything we should never do wrong. Of all the attributes of the
Almighty, goodness is that which it would be hardest to dissociate from
our conception of Him. All nations who have acknowledged a good and
an evil power, have always regarded the evil as inferior to the good;
otherwise their opinion would have been absurd. Compare this with the
creed of the Savoyard clergyman later on in this book.
Reason alone teaches us to know good and evil. Therefore conscience,
which makes us love the one and hate the other, though it is independent
of reason, cannot develop without it. Before the age of reason we do
good or ill without knowing it, and there is no morality in our actions,
although there is sometimes in our feeling with regard to other people's
actions in relation to ourselves. A child wants to overturn everything
he sees. He breaks and smashes everything he can reach; he seizes a
bird as he seizes a stone, and strangles it without knowing what he
is about.
Why so? In the first place philosophy will account for this by inbred
sin, man's pride, love of power, selfishness, spite; perhaps it will
say in addition to this that the child's consciousness of his own weakness
makes him eager to use his strength, to convince himself of it. But
watch that broken down old man reduced in the downward course of life
to the weakness of a child; not only is he quiet and peaceful, he would
have all about him quiet and peaceful too; the least change disturbs
and troubles him, he would like to see universal calm. How is it possible
that similar feebleness and similar passions should produce such different
effects in age and in infancy, if the original cause were not different?
And where can we find this difference in cause except in the bodily
condition of the two. The active principle, common to both, is growing
in one case and declining in the other; it is being formed in the one
and destroyed in the other; one is moving towards life, the other towards
death. The failing activity of the old man is centred in his heart,
the child's overflowing activity spreads abroad. He feels, if we may
say so, strong enough to give life to all about him. To make or to destroy,
it is all one to him; change is what he seeks, and all change involves
action. If he seems to enjoy destructive activity it is only that it
takes time to make things and very little time to break them, so that
the work of destruction accords better with his eagerness.
While the Author of nature has given children this activity, He takes
care that it shall do little harm by giving them small power to use
it. But as soon as they can think of people as tools to be used, they
use them to carry out their wishes and to supplement their own weakness.
This is how they become tiresome, masterful, imperious, naughty, and
unmanageable; a development which does not spring from a natural love
of power, but one which has been taught them, for it does not need much
experience to realise how pleasant it is to set others to work and to
move the world by a word.
As the child grows it gains strength and becomes less restless and unquiet
and more independent. Soul and body become better balanced and nature
no longer asks for more movement than is required for self-preservation.
But the love of power does not die with the need that aroused it; power
arouses and flatters self-love, and habit strengthens it; thus caprice
follows upon need, and the first seeds of prejudice and obstinacy are
sown.
FIRST MAXIM.--Far from being too strong, children are not strong
enough for all the claims of nature. Give them full use of such strength
as they have; they will not abuse it.
SECOND MAXIM.--Help them and supply the experience and strength
they lack whenever the need is of the body.
THIRD MAXIM.--In the help you give them confine yourself to what
is really needful, without granting anything to caprice or unreason;
for they will not be tormented by caprice if you do not call it into
existence, seeing it is no part of nature.
FOURTH MAXIM--Study carefully their speech and gestures, so that
at an age when they are incapable of deceit you may discriminate between
those desires which come from nature and those which spring from perversity.
The spirit of these rules is to give children more real liberty and
less power, to let them do more for themselves and demand less of others;
so that by teaching them from the first to confine their wishes within
the limits of their powers they will scarcely feel the want of whatever
is not in their power.
This is another very important reason for leaving children's limbs and
bodies perfectly free, only taking care that they do not fall, and keeping
anything that might hurt them out of their way.
The child whose body and arms are free will certainly cry much less
than a child tied up in swaddling clothes. He who knows only bodily
needs, only cries when in pain; and this is a great advantage, for then
we know exactly when he needs help, and if possible we should not delay
our help for an instant. But if you cannot relieve his pain, stay where
you are and do not flatter him by way of soothing him; your caresses
will not cure his colic, but he will remember what he must do to win
them; and if he once finds out how to gain your attention at will, he
is your master; the whole education is spoilt.
Their movements being less constrained, children will cry less; less
wearied with their tears, people will not take so much trouble to check
them. With fewer threats and promises, they will be less timid and less
obstinate, and will remain more nearly in their natural state. Ruptures
are produced less by letting children cry than by the means taken to
stop them, and my evidence for this is the fact that the most neglected
children are less liable to them than others. I am very far from wishing
that they should be neglected; on the contrary, it is of the utmost
importance that their wants should be anticipated, so that they need
not proclaim their wants by crying. But neither would I have unwise
care bestowed on them. Why should they think it wrong to cry when they
find they can get so much by it? When they have learned the value of
their silence they take good care not to waste it. In the end they will
so exaggerate its importance that no one will be able to pay its price;
then worn out with crying they become exhausted, and are at length silent.
Prolonged crying on the part of a child neither swaddled nor out of
health, a child who lacks nothing, is merely the result of habit or
obstinacy. Such tears are no longer the work of nature, but the work
of the child's nurse, who could not resist its importunity and so has
increased it, without considering that while she quiets the child to-day
she is teaching him to cry louder to-morrow.
Moreover, when caprice or obstinacy is the cause of their tears, there
is a sure way of stopping them by distracting their attention by some
pleasant or conspicuous object which makes them forget that they want
to cry. Most nurses excel in this art, and rightly used it is very useful;
but it is of the utmost importance that the child should not perceive
that you mean to distract his attention, and that he should be amused
without suspecting you are thinking about him; now this is what most
nurses cannot do.
Most children are weaned too soon. The time to wean them is when they
cut their teeth. This generally causes pain and suffering. At this time
the child instinctively carries everything he gets hold of to his mouth
to chew it. To help forward this process he is given as a plaything
some hard object such as ivory or a wolf's tooth. I think this is a
mistake. Hard bodies applied to the gums do not soften them; far from
it, they make the process of cutting the teeth more difficult and painful.
Let us always take instinct as our guide; we never see puppies practising
their budding teeth on pebbles, iron, or bones, but on wood, leather,
rags, soft materials which yield to their jaws, and on which the tooth
leaves its mark.
We can do nothing simply, not even for our children. Toys of silver,
gold, coral, cut crystal, rattles of every price and kind; what vain
and useless appliances. Away with them all! Let us have no corals or
rattles; a small branch of a tree with its leaves and fruit, a stick
of liquorice which he may suck and chew, will amuse him as well as these
splendid trifles, and they will have this advantage at least, he will
not be brought up to luxury from his birth.
It is admitted that pap is not a very wholesome food. Boiled milk and
uncooked flour cause gravel and do not suit the stomach. In pap the
flour is less thoroughly cooked than in bread and it has not fermented.
I think bread and milk or rice-cream are better. If you will have pap,
the flour should be lightly cooked beforehand. In my own country they
make a very pleasant and wholesome soup from flour thus heated. Meat-broth
or soup is not a very suitable food and should be used as little as
possible. The child must first get used to chewing his food; this is
the right way to bring the teeth through, and when the child begins
to swallow, the saliva mixed with the food helps digestion.
I would have them first chew dried fruit or crusts. I should give them
as playthings little bits of dry bread or biscuits, like the Piedmont
bread, known in the country as "grisses." By dint of softening
this bread in the mouth some of it is eventually swallowed the teeth
come through of themselves, and the child is weaned almost imperceptibly.
Peasants have usually very good digestions, and they are weaned with
no more ado.
From the very first children hear spoken language; we speak to them
before they can understand or even imitate spoken sounds. The vocal
organs are still stiff, and only gradually lend themselves to the reproduction
of the sounds heard; it is even doubtful whether these sounds are heard
distinctly as we hear them. The nurse may amuse the child with songs
and with very merry and varied intonation, but I object to her bewildering
the child with a multitude of vain words of which it understands nothing
but her tone of voice. I would have the first words he hears few in
number, distinctly and often repeated, while the words themselves should
be related to things which can first be shown to the child. That fatal
facility in the use of words we do not understand begins earlier than
we think. In the schoolroom the scholar listens to the verbiage of his
master as he listened in the cradle to the babble of his nurse. I think
it would be a very useful education to leave him in ignorance of both.
All sorts of ideas crowd in upon us when we try to consider the development
of speech and the child's first words. Whatever we do they all learn
to talk in the same way, and all philosophical speculations are utterly
useless.
To begin with, they have, so to say, a grammar of their own, whose rules
and syntax are more general than our own; if you attend carefully you
will be surprised to find how exactly they follow certain analogies,
very much mistaken if you like, but very regular; these forms are only
objectionable because of their harshness or because they are not recognised
by custom. I have just heard a child severely scolded by his father
for saying, "Mon pere, irai-je-t-y?" Now we see that this
child was following the analogy more closely than our grammarians, for
as they say to him, "Vas-y," why should he not say, "Irai-je-t-y?"
Notice too the skilful way in which he avoids the hiatus in irai-je-y
or y-irai-je? Is it the poor child's fault that we have so unskilfully
deprived the phrase of this determinative adverb "y," because
we did not know what to do with it? It is an intolerable piece of pedantry
and most superfluous attention to detail to make a point of correcting
all children's little sins against the customary expression, for they
always cure themselves with time. Always speak correctly before them,
let them never be so happy with any one as with you, and be sure that
their speech will be imperceptibly modelled upon yours without any correction
on your part.
But a much greater evil, and one far less easy to guard against, is
that they are urged to speak too much, as if people were afraid they
would not learn to talk of themselves. This indiscreet zeal produces
an effect directly opposite to what is meant. They speak later and more
confusedly; the extreme attention paid to everything they say makes
it unnecessary for them to speak distinctly, and as they will scarcely
open their mouths, many of them contract a vicious pronunciation and
a confused speech, which last all their life and make them almost unintelligible.
I have lived much among peasants, and I never knew one of them lisp,
man or woman, boy or girl. Why is this? Are their speech organs differently
made from our own? No, but they are differently used. There is a hillock
facing my window on which the children of the place assemble for their
games. Although they are far enough away, I can distinguish perfectly
what they say, and often get good notes for this book. Every day my
ear deceives me as to their age. I hear the voices of children of ten;
I look and see the height and features of children of three or four.
This experience is not confined to me; the townspeople who come to see
me, and whom I consult on this point, all fall into the same mistake.
This results from the fact that, up to five or six, children in town,
brought up in a room and under the care of a nursery governess, do not
need to speak above a whisper to make themselves heard. As soon as their
lips move people take pains to make out what they mean; they are taught
words which they repeat inaccurately, and by paying great attention
to them the people who are always with them rather guess what they meant
to say than what they said.
It is quite a different matter in the country. A peasant woman is not
always with her child; he is obliged to learn to say very clearly and
loudly what he wants, if he is to make himself understood. Children
scattered about the fields at a distance from their fathers, mothers
and other children, gain practice in making themselves heard at a distance,
and in adapting the loudness of the voice to the distance which separates
them from those to whom they want to speak. This is the real way to
learn pronunciation, not by stammering out a few vowels into the ear
of an attentive governess. So when you question a peasant child, he
may be too shy to answer, but what he says he says distinctly, while
the nurse must serve as interpreter for the town child; without her
one can understand nothing of what he is muttering between his teeth.
[Footnote: There are exceptions to this; and often those children who
at first are most difficult to hear, become the noisiest when they begin
to raise their voices. But if I were to enter into all these details
I should never make an end; every sensible reader ought to see that
defect and excess, caused by the same abuse, are both corrected by my
method. I regard the two maxims as inseparable--always enough--never
too much. When the first ii well established, the latter necessarily
follows on it.]
As they grow older, the boys are supposed to be cured of this fault
at college, the girls in the convent schools; and indeed both usually
speak more clearly than children brought up entirely at home. But they
are prevented from acquiring as clear a pronunciation as the peasants
in this way--they are required to learn all sorts of things by heart,
and to repeat aloud what they have learnt; for when they are studying
they get into the way of gabbling and pronouncing carelessly and ill;
it is still worse when they repeat their lessons; they cannot find the
right words, they drag out their syllables. This is only possible when
the memory hesitates, the tongue does not stammer of itself. Thus they
acquire or continue habits of bad pronunciation. Later on you will see
that Emile does not acquire such habits or at least not from this cause.
I grant you uneducated people and villagers often fall into the opposite
extreme. They almost always speak too loud; their pronunciation is too
exact, and leads to rough and coarse articulation; their accent is too
pronounced, they choose their expressions badly, etc.
But, to begin with, this extreme strikes me as much less dangerous than
the other, for the first law of speech is to make oneself understood,
and the chief fault is to fail to be understood. To pride ourselves
on having no accent is to pride ourselves on ridding our phrases of
strength and elegance. Emphasis is the soul of speech, it gives it its
feeling and truth. Emphasis deceives less than words; perhaps that is
why well-educated people are so afraid of it. From the custom of saying
everything in the same tone has arisen that of poking fun at people
without their knowing it. When emphasis is proscribed, its place is
taken by all sorts of ridiculous, affected, and ephemeral pronunciations,
such as one observes especially among the young people about court.
It is this affectation of speech and manner which makes Frenchmen disagreeable
and repulsive to other nations on first acquaintance. Emphasis is found,
not in their speech, but in their bearing. That is not the way to make
themselves attractive.
All these little faults of speech, which you are so afraid the children
will acquire, are mere trifles; they may be prevented or corrected with
the greatest ease, but the faults which are taught them when you make
them speak in a low, indistinct, and timid voice, when you are always
criticising their tone and finding fault with their words, are never
cured. A man who has only learnt to speak in society of fine ladies
could not make himself heard at the head of his troops, and would make
little impression on the rabble in a riot. First teach the child to
speak to men; he will be able to speak to the women when required.
Brought up in all the rustic simplicity of the country, your children
will gain a more sonorous voice; they will not acquire the hesitating
stammer of town children, neither will they acquire the expressions
nor the tone of the villagers, or if they do they will easily lose them;
their master being with them from their earliest years, and more and
more in their society the older they grow, will be able to prevent or
efface by speaking correctly himself the impression of the peasants'
talk. Emile will speak the purest French I know, but he will speak it
more distinctly and with a better articulation than myself.
The child who is trying to speak should hear nothing but words he can
understand, nor should he say words he cannot articulate; his efforts
lead him to repeat the same syllable as if he were practising its clear
pronunciation. When he begins to stammer, do not try to understand him.
To expect to be always listened to is a form of tyranny which is not
good for the child. See carefully to his real needs, and let him try
to make you understand the rest. Still less should you hurry him into
speech; he will learn to talk when he feels the want of it.
It has indeed been remarked that those who begin to speak very late
never speak so distinctly as others; but it is not because they talked
late that they are hesitating; on the contrary, they began to talk late
because they hesitate; if not, why did they begin to talk so late? Have
they less need of speech, have they been less urged to it? On the contrary,
the anxiety aroused with the first suspicion of this backwardness leads
people to tease them much more to begin to talk than those who articulated
earlier; and this mistaken zeal may do much to make their speech confused,
when with less haste they might have had time to bring it to greater
perfection.
Children who are forced to speak too soon have no time to learn either
to pronounce correctly or to understand what they are made to say; while
left to themselves they first practise the easiest syllables, and then,
adding to them little by little some meaning which their gestures explain,
they teach you their own words before they learn yours. By this means
they do not acquire your words till they have understood them. Being
in no hurry to use them, they begin by carefully observing the sense
in which you use them, and when they are sure of them they adopt them.
The worst evil resulting from the precocious use of speech by young
children is that we not only fail to understand the first words they
use, we misunderstand them without knowing it; so that while they seem
to answer us correctly, they fail to understand us and we them. This
is the most frequent cause of our surprise at children's sayings; we
attribute to them ideas which they did not attach to their words. This
lack of attention on our part to the real meaning which words have for
children seems to me the cause of their earliest misconceptions; and
these misconceptions, even when corrected, colour their whole course
of thought for the rest of their life. I shall have several opportunities
of illustrating these by examples later on.
Let the child's vocabulary, therefore, be limited; it is very undesirable
that he should have more words than ideas, that he should be able to
say more than he thinks. One of the reasons why peasants are generally
shrewder than townsfolk is, I think, that their vocabulary is smaller.
They have few ideas, but those few are thoroughly grasped.
The infant is progressing in several ways at once; he is learning to
talk, eat, and walk about the same time. This is really the first phase
of his life. Up till now, he was little more than he was before birth;
he had neither feeling nor thought, he was barely capable of sensation;
he was unconscious of his own existence.
"Vivit, et est vitae nescius ipse suae."--Ovid.
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